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Manipulative and Controlling People and some Control Tactics

Posted: December 17, 2011 Under: Self Esteem By Darlene Ouimet 71 Comments

controlling and manipulative people picked on me about who I was, the way I dressed and the friends I picked in an effort to make sure that I never felt good enough about myself to realize how pathetic they themselves were.

When “Leave Well Enough Alone” Involves Crime against Children

Posted: June 11, 2011 Under: Family By Darlene Ouimet 77 Comments

When we want to talk about the past, about injustice, psychological or emotional abuse, sexual abuse, or even just having been hushed or ignored, so often we are told to leave it alone or let it go, but when we are told that it is “well enough” as it is, it is like being slapped. It is a re-abuse.

Emotionally Abusive Statements Designed to Control

Posted: March 22, 2011 Under: Freedom & Wholeness By Darlene Ouimet 148 Comments

Continuing from part one “Emotional Healing by Understanding Psychological Abuse” I talked about how Psychological Abusers misuse their power in order to control and abuse others. In this post I continue with some of the statements that emotionally abusive controlling people make to create fear, confusion and the inability to think, and to force … Continue reading "Emotionally Abusive Statements Designed to Control"

Controllers and Manipulative People don’t Question Themselves

Posted: January 25, 2011 Under: Family By Darlene Ouimet 117 Comments

On What Authority? Controllers, abusers and manipulative people don’t question themselves. They don’t ask themselves if the problem is them. They always say the problem is someone else. This was a huge problem for me when I went into therapy because I was very willing to convince my therapist that the problem was me ~ … Continue reading "Controllers and Manipulative People don’t Question Themselves"

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Manipulative and Controlling People and some Control Tactics

When “Leave Well Enough Alone” Involves Crime against Children

Emotionally Abusive Statements Designed to Control

Controllers and Manipulative People don’t Question Themselves