Bullies and Bullying ~ Where Bullying Really Starts

Would a teacher throw something at another teacher to get their attention? Would a teacher call another teacher a brat or a moron? I don’t think so. SO why can they treat kids this way? Would a teacher make another teacher do push-ups as a consequence or send a parent helper to stand in the corner? The way that we model behaviour to kids is how they learn how relationships work.

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Psychological Abuse, Domestic Violence and the Belief System

When I was about 19, I worked with a woman who was getting knocked around by her boyfriend. We were all trying to convince her to leave him. Domestic violence ~ physical abuse is a chargeable offence! One day she came into work with a swollen eye. We were all saying “Okay that’s it ~ you have to get out!” and she said that this time it really was her fault...

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