Is Trust Mandatory in Healthy Relationship? The True definition of Trust

One of the biggest stick points on the journey to emotional healing has to do with the subject of TRUST. Somewhere along the way I came to believe that I had to trust people until they were proven untrustworthy. That is a false understanding of trust. It was through understanding how I learned the meaning of … Continue reading "Is Trust Mandatory in Healthy Relationship? The True definition of Trust"

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How I believed it was UP TO ME to Fix Problems in Relationships

I used to have a pattern (like a default way of responding) where I would give a lot more attention to the people who ‘fought me’ and told me I was wrong, compared to the way that I responded to people who agreed with me and validated my thoughts. I noticed that I actually tried … Continue reading "How I believed it was UP TO ME to Fix Problems in Relationships"

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My Reckoning Journey on the path to Forgiving my Parents by Pam Witzemann

Part 2 continues in this 2 part guest article by Pam Witzemann. Please read part 1 “The Process of Forgiving…” for additional information and helpful context. My Reckoning Journey on the path to Forgiving my Parents by Pam Witzemann Being able to forgive my parents for abusing me, as a child, came at the conclusion … Continue reading "My Reckoning Journey on the path to Forgiving my Parents by Pam Witzemann"

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Punishment as a Control Tactic in Abusive Family Systems

  Happy New Year! Welcome to a new year Emerging from Broken! I talk about the belief system and how it is developed and how we are brainwashed into believing that the problem is us in the first place. There are specific abuse tactics that are used to cement this brainwashing which cause the ‘fear … Continue reading "Punishment as a Control Tactic in Abusive Family Systems"

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