And After the Struggle


(continued on from my previous post, Beauty and Power in the Struggle)

And after the struggle, I am gifted with a stronger sense of the truth about myself. What I doubted so fiercely in the “tug” has gone through a refining process… like the juice squeezing out of a lemon or a bubbling sauce on the stove reduced to thick deliciousness or rich coffee swirling up from the pressure of a coffee press…  Belief emerges on the other side, a bit clearer, a bit brighter, a bit more sure, more real. My effort, my decision to pay attention, to listen for the truth and to believe it, has produced another drop of my purified “identity” essence, created a clearer reflection of my true self for my own eyes to see.

To have this end result in my hands is gold, a treasure that can absolutely never be taken from me. It wasn’t forced upon me or slapped together in make-shift impatience. It was created, brought forth from my very own self, my own pain, my own labor, my own process of acceptance.

I rest and marvel at what has just happened… I feel at peace. I have proven something to myself, that in the intensity of the struggle, I have embraced what is true. I have presented myself with flawless evidence that I do have what it takes for this journey. My heart is good; it ultimately wants what is good; it is able to choose what is true.

It used to be necessary for me to ask someone else to take my hands and place them on the “truth” rope…  I do not judge myself for this; I had no practice in the better way. I had survived on other people’s help, on other people doing for me what I didn’t believe I could do myself. I will sometimes need this kind of help at certain points along my journey; sometimes is different than always…

But oh the joy in finding the ability to be able to do this for myself…

I do believe there’s a “blog party” going on around here… Truth gleaning after a struggle is one of my favorite times to celebrate, so I think I’m in the right place.  If you have any post-struggle “truth treasures” of your own, please feel free to share them here so we can celebrate with you too!

Love Carla

Categories : Self Esteem



I am just beginning to get
this process. I reminds me of the aurora borealis. Swirling streams of evanescent color. Constantly in motion. Surrounded by a black sky but still even there stars are
very evident. It’s glorious when you do it right. Captivating. Thanks for sharing


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I really like that imagery Splinteredones… constantly in motion and the stars are always evident. Thanks for sharing too!

Hugs to you


This is so inspiring… Thank you.


Thank you Edde, for stopping by and leaving a comment. I love the subtitle of your blog, “forever falling forward”. That is inspiring to me in return!


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